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an eye-opener.
Jul 6, 2009 - 6:15 PM
i'm sick & tired of hearing about relationships failing. i'm not in one myself, but it's noticing other people's romance that let's me know whether or not they're worth it. i wanna believe they are, but all these people .. GIVING UP too easily, prove that they're not. look guys, i know we're young. we have alot to lose. but if you're in a relationship and the striking words of commitment fall out of your mouth, be real about it. say it if you mean it. say it if you know you won't back out in the long run. it's stupid and careless mistakes like these that gets us - the youth - labelled as characters who don't know what's good for them yet. they always look down on us because they think we're incapable of handling a steady relationship. maybe we are, but most likely .. we aren't. who knows? maturity isn't something that can't be timed PERFECTLY. doesn't it get you pissed off though that majority of the parents don't approve dating at our age because .. we can't "handle" one? okay! then if it cheeses you off, prove them wrong. fellas - hold her down. you say things like you don't wanna lose her and she's the f*cking best, then don't be all talk. be a real man and show them that your intentions are for real. abondment and rejection are things that a female doesn't handle very well, and you should know that from the get-go. make sure you know what you're getting into before you regret decisions and break promises. girls - maybe you should tone down the mood swings. blame it on p.m.s, whatever. but it's things like THESE that get us in "fml" mode. it's things like these that make your boyfriends question your bond. you have to know that men want to get to the POINT, they want the main idea. just skip the little details that confuses your man, because confusion can lead to chaos and chaos eventually leads to stupid little heartbreaks. keep the drama to a minimum. and yes, you'll have to go through bullshit. you have to suffer a little bit, but arguements and fights help enhance your relationship if you know how to pull through it as one. there's stupid things out there that are trying to penetrate through the both of you, but if you care about each other like you say you do, you won't let anything stand in the way of accomplishments you two want to reach. every relationship has the potential to become something extraordinary, but it's up to the two of you to keep holding this down .. or let it all crash.
but hey, this is one 4'11 girl's opinion.