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"Stop telling God how big your problems are and start telling your problems how big your God is."

I'm Sty and I have a good head on my shoulders.

wtf is upppp, seriously!

Jul 10, 2009 - 10:14 AM

what's going on? i'm seeing broken hearts left and right, depression's an emotion that's becoming more visable to so much people. "love" isn't easy to come by. and all these people had something good going on, but they just .. gave up on it. aren't you supposed to cherish and take care of something so .. valuable? but people are throwing it around like it's garbage. love isn't a one time thing, no. but it's one of those things that need to be treated properly and carefully. or else it's going to get bitchy and bite you in the back. you need to make sure you know what you're getting into before you pussy out. when you're with someone, you're not going to have a perfect relationship. perfection doesn't come from never arguing, never fighting, and never stressing. the process of "perfection" is achieved by working through bullshit together, learning from stressfull experiences, and growing IN love. i'm not saying you should start more shit with your boyfriend/girlfriend to have a better relationship, but you just need to realize that bullshit IS going to go down. you just need to know how to handle things like that. you are with that person for a reason. you wanted to be committed to him/her, you chose to be a part of that person's life. and you're going to let one fight destroy that commitment? don't let that define what you two have together. the reasons for wanting to be by that person's side have to be clear. most of the time, those reasons fade. and people forget why they're with that person. if you're really down for this person, and i mean REALLY down, you'll never forget why you chose him/her. you know that something about that person seperates them from all the other wastes you've met in the past. breaking up .. most of the time, it happens for stupid reasons. there's a very rare occasion where break ups are what's "for the best". ditching somebody just because they cheese you off, "you're tired", "you can't handle it", or "you want to see other people" are dumbass reasons to support you in why you want to leave a relationship. you start a relationship because you think that it's worth it, you know you won't regret anything. but once you end it for stupid reasons like that, you just look .. stupid. avoid trying to look stupid, and get real. love is not for suckers.

~smile! sty loves ya. sorta.